Advice on dating a man with a child
If you’re a 20- to 35-year-old woman without any children I caution you against dating a man with kids.
The girls’ mother also had a demanding job, so she never seemed available to deal with her own children.
So this brings me to my first point: If you date a man with children, you can never expect to come first.
I’m a rational person, so I realize that a man’s children should and will come first.
But this creates a conflict because a woman wants to feel secure and wanted in a relationship, but if she demands greater importance than his children, then she comes off as an insensitive bitch.
Another big issue in this type of relationship is baby mama drama.
Most men try to avoid conflict with the women in their lives at all costs, so it’s a pretty safe bet that he will go along with whatever ridiculousness his children’s mother puts him through.